I found some flirty email conversations between my husband and his co-worker. I confront him and intially he lies, gets defensive, and finally agrees that it was poor judgement. He says there was no emotional or physical connection/ attraction. Why would one flirt with out any physical attraction. He did not want me to read the other conversations and promised to stop everything at once and deleted all the converstaions. How long would this have continued if i have'nt found the emails? How deep would the relationship delved? How do i move forward? Knowing me, i can never forget this. I can never get over the fact that he broke my trust again. I am still in recovey phase and am already depressed. I dont have the strength to fight the urge to give up and die.